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The word rape originates from the Latin verb rapere: to seize
or take by force. The word originally had no sexual connotation and is still
used generically in English. The history of rape, and the alterations of its
meaning, is quite complex. The Latin term for the act of rape itself is
raptus.
Rape
is a form of assault involving the non-consensual use of the sexual organs
of another person's body. The assailant can be of either sex, as can their
target.
Rape is generally considered as one of the most serious sex crimes that can
be very difficult to prosecute. Sexual violence can also be a war crime
under international law. Consent may be absent due to duress arising from
the use, or threat, of overwhelming force or violence, or because the
subject is incapacitated in some way such as intoxication and/or underage
innocence. In some cases coercion might also be used to negate consent.
There is no universally accepted distinction between rape and other forms of
assault involving one or both participant's sexual organs.
Historically, the rape of males was more widely
recognized in ancient times. Several of the legends in Greek mythology
involved abductions and sexual assaults of males by other males or gods. The
rape of a defeated male enemy was considered the special right of the
victorious soldier in some societies and was a signal of the totality of the
defeat. There was a widespread belief that a male who was sexually
penetrated, even if it was by forced sexual assault, thus "lost his
manhood," and could no longer be a warrior or ruler. Gang rape of a male was
considered an ultimate form of punishment and, as such, was known to the
Romans as punishment for adultery and the Persians and Iranians as
punishment for violation of the sanctity of the harem (Donaldson, 1990).
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The trauma
of rape can permeate into all areas of the victim’s life, like the dropping
of a pebble into a pool of water; the effects are like the ripples it
creates, into unseen and unfamiliar depths.
Possible Feelings and Emotional
Responses experienced by a target of rape and/or sexual violence are as
follows:
Fear
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Repercussions – which may include damage to oneself or loved ones.
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Of
being left alone or having to leave loved ones.
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Of
‘breaking down’ or ‘losing control’ in front of others.
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Of a
similar assault happening again.
Helplessness
Sadness
Shame
Anger
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At
having no control over what has happened.
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At the
perpetrator, rapist, sex offender.
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The
injustice & audacity of the attack.
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At the
shame and indignity.
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At the
lack of proper understanding by others and their inefficiencies.
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Why Me?
Nature heals through allowing
these feelings to come out. This will not lead to loss of control of the
mind, but bottling these feelings up may lead to nervous and physical
problems.
Physical and Emotional Sensations
Physical sensations with or
without the feelings described are not always but sometimes due to the rape
or act of sexual violence, even if they develop many months after the
incident.
After being raped it is common for the victim to experience intense, and
sometimes unpredictable, emotions, and they may find it hard to deal with
their memories of the assault. Victims can be severely traumatised by the
assault and may have difficulty functioning as well as they had been used to
prior to the assault, with disruption of concentration, sleeping patterns
and eating habits, for example. They may feel jumpy or be on edge. In the
month(s) immediately following the assault these problems may be severe and
very upsetting and may prevent the victim from revealing their ordeal to
friends or family, or seeking police or medical assistance. This may result
in PTSD Post Traumatic Stress Disorder. Symptoms of this are:
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Feeling numb and detached,
like being in a daze or a dream, or feeling that the world is strange
and unreal.
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Feeling as though the brain
has been hi – jacked with the rape taking up 100% of the victim’s
thinking time.
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Difficulty remembering
important parts of the assault.
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Reliving the assault through
repeated thoughts, memories, flashbacks or nightmares.
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Avoidance of things, places,
thoughts, feelings that remind the victim of the assault.
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Having panic attacks.
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Anxiety or increased arousal
(difficulty sleeping, concentrating, etc.).
Victims may respond to the rape in either an expressive or a controlled way.
The expressive way involves obvious outward effects and emotions such as
crying, shaking, rage, tenseness, ironic and uncomfortable laughter (part of
their denial), and restlessness.
When a person has been raped there are many consequences for them to bear
and one of the most traumatic is contracting either a sexually transmitted
disease, if female, becoming pregnant or both. How an individual reacts to
either of these situations is their choice, possibly assisted by those they
trust.
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Drug Facilitated Sexual Assault
is where a perpetrator spikes an intended victims drink with a drug. Because
most DFSA drugs dissolve quickly and can be produced as colourless,
odourless and tasteless – a victim can ingest it unknowingly. Within 10 –
20 minutes a victim can become ill, disorientated or very sleepy and unable
to move or think clearly. If the drink has a content of alcohol then the
drugs effects can be intensified. The effects can last anywhere from 2-24
hours and can leave the victim incapable of remembering what happened.
Rapists and sexual predators
use drugs as a way to overpower their targeted victims in order to sedate
them, causing them to be incapacitated and unable to fight back.
Unfortunately, these drugs are easily accessible, some are legal for use for
another purpose and so are therefore readily available and inexpensive.
Certain drugs are sometimes used to assist a
sexual assault. Sexual assault is any type of sexual activity that a person
does not agree to. It can include inappropriate touching, vaginal
penetration, sexual intercourse, rape, and attempted rape.
Drug Facilitated Sexual Assault is where a perpetrator
spikes an intended victims drink with a drug. Because most DFSA drugs
dissolve quickly and can be produced as colourless, odourless and tasteless
– a victim can ingest it unknowingly. Within 10 – 20 minutes a victim can
become ill, disorientated or very sleepy and unable to move or think
clearly. If the drink has a content of alcohol then the drugs effects can be
intensified. The effects can last anywhere from 2-24 hours and can leave the
victim incapable of remembering what happened.
Rapists and sexual predators
use drugs as a way to overpower their targeted victims in order to sedate
them, causing them to be incapacitated and unable to fight back.
Unfortunately, these drugs are easily accessible, some are legal for use for
another purpose and so are therefore readily available and inexpensive.
Certain drugs are sometimes used to assist a
sexual assault. Sexual assault is any type of sexual activity that a person
does not agree to. It can include inappropriate touching, vaginal
penetration, sexual intercourse, rape, and attempted rape.
Because of the effects of these certain
drugs, victims may be physically helpless, unable to refuse sex, and can't
remember what happened. The drugs often have no colour, smell, or taste and
are easily added to flavoured drinks without the victim's knowledge.
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